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I SEE YOU.

Because I’ve been where you are – boots, heels, or worn-out sneakers and all. With 22+ years as a sex worker, professional Dom, mentor, sex educator, and now life and sex coach, I know what it means to break free. Nothing scares me. Well… except snakes. And giant spiders.


FEELING STUCK? ASHAMED?
UNSURE WHERE TO GO NEXT?

Ask yourself: What’s really on your mind?
What’s holding you back from your freedom? And what’s stopping you from feeling truly free in your own life?
I offer sex-positive, sex-forward, life-affirming coaching – specifically for individuals and the vibrant LGBTQ+ community in NYC ready to grow, heal, and thrive. This is your shame-free zone to explore your truth, desires, and story without judgment. Overcoming internalized shame isn’t clean or easy. It’s messy, powerful, and deeply human work. This isn’t just coaching – it’s partnership. I’m all in with you.


So – where could you be a little less guarded right now?

Vulnerability is your strength. Holding space for your story builds the resilience to thrive.
 

WHOSE JOURNEY ARE YOU REALLY ON?
ISN'T IT TIME TO COME HOME TO YOURSELF?

Fixed Minset Frustration Sexual expression Touch massage Beauty harmony inspiration Order peace trusting trust support reassurance empowering Enable acceptance appreciation Self worth meaning Creativity Celebration autonomy dreams sober Soberity AA CMA DA SCA dreams loss grief

OBSTACLES DON'T HAVE TO
HOLD YOU BACK ANYMORE.


Life coaching is all about YOU, your needs & your journey!
 
I've been there, with over 20 years of experience in LGBTQIA+ community. I offer deep empathy & truthful, compassionate guidance that will inspire you to view challenges as opportunities.
 
The purpose of working with a coach and someone like myself who is uniquely qualified is:
 
- A coach helps clients build a vision for the future. Be that your bucket list / fuck it list, or having someone hear you for the first time in years.
 
- I provide support, encouragement, and accountability as YOU work towards YOUR aim and purpose. By helping navigate setbacks and stay focused on YOUR vision for the future.
 
When was the last time you had a mindset shift?

TESTIMONIALS

"Anthony as is a really good life coach. I was in a place where therapy wouldn't have met my needs - I needed feedback and constructive stuff to move forward, and I was a little lost about where I was going. I needed someone to talk it out with and goal set. He is not fooling around and will not coddle, and I was able to see where what I was doing wasn't really helping. I was about to start on a different life journey, for better or worse. He's a safe space but he also calls me out on my BS. Great experience."

Candice

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OCEANUS LIFE MANAGEMENT, LLC

New York, NY 10001

anthony@oceanuslifemanagement.com

Tel: 415-548-0511

© 2023 by Oceanus Life Management.

*Oceanus Life Management does not provide counseling or psychiatric services.

I coach by the ICF Code of Ethics, which means anything that is shared is confidential, unless required by law.

For more information about the
ICF Code of Ethics go here.

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